detail is important
The fact that getting married is not the most important thing in the girl’s life, the girls understand that they are already married and faced with the fact that it does not at all look like the life of a fairy-tale princess in a magic castle. In a good way, not all girls can be married: you don’t want to spoil the life of either them or young people; however, fighting that girls want to get married is pointless. Moreover, this goal is not bad: in moving towards this goal, girls can grow wiser and get acquainted with what self-control, discipline and control of their emotions are. It is possible to marry successfully and by accident, but by chance becoming a good wife will not work, you need to be able to take care of yourself and follow the rules. So, if in the desire to get married the girl will teach herself to follow the rules, will teach to subordinate her desires and impulses to what is “necessary”, she will learn one of the most important life lessons. And this is already excellent.
My daughters read the book Ellen Feyn and Sherry Schneider “Rules. Continue reading