How to stop being Mommy
Women do not know how to love. Twist as you like, but this is the real truth. Strongly said, yes? That's what I wanted to call this note, but I…

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What to learn from a European family
The rational and very useful achievement of the European family - the lack of division of responsibilities between women and men, may seem controversial for a Russian person, but it…

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No one owes nothing to nobody?
"No one owes nothing to nobody!" - I said thirty years ago in the book "How to treat yourself and people: practical psychology for every day." Since then, an equal…

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Criticism offensive and unfair: what to do about it?

Culture is not peculiar to everyone, and from many people and more than once you will once hear both stupid and offensive remarks. If possible, it is better to skip such rubbish criticism without even discussing it. “The dogs are barking, the caravan is coming.” Do your job in the best way possible, and do not waste time bickering with those who criticize you out of business, not understanding, or just doing billing.

A much more complicated situation is when unfair and insulting criticism sounds to you from the boss or seniors. How to react to this? – In any case, start by doing what you are told, all the more likely that it is not criticism that is not fair, and you do not understand everything in what is happening. Chef or seniors often – know better. Another thing, the offensive form of comments to you – yes, this is not the case. If the relationship with them is good, after all, you can ask you to make comments in a more acceptable form for you. It is often very useful to formulate in plain text how you can be criticized so that you perceive it normally. And if your relationship is problematic, then instead of being offended by an unpleasant form of criticism towards you, think about the main thing: is it possible to change the relationship? Or – what else to do to change the situation as a whole? Continue reading

Is the woman responsible for the mood in the family? Are you seriously?
Recently, the conviction: “This woman is responsible for the atmosphere (mood, psychological climate) in the family”, it seems, comes from every iron. The propaganda of this madness has reached some…

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Format
Format - a form of behavior required for a certain range of situations. This is a specially defined behavior and part of the usually natural reactions that are proposed to…

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Family is a common goal
What makes a couple stable and what is not in most Russian families You have met or heard such stories. Imagine a queue near the office of an official. About…

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A real woman is always a cat
Dogs are loyal to the owner and are well trained. Cats come to the house to enjoy food and home comfort, but are not attached to the owners, are poorly…

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