Anatomy of family communication
Usually hidden necrophiles are fond of anatomy, especially pathologic anatomy; nevertheless, I will venture to offer you a small excursion into the pathological anatomy of family communication. Well, really, this…

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Marital relations: how to influence each other
If people are smart and love each other, everything is simple: one asked, the other did. Disagreements arise - close people agree. You can agree on almost everything, but not…

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I'm not cruel, I take care of your son
Situation A woman, 47 years old, married, lives with her husband. The main earner in the family is her. 2 years ago I bought an apartment in a mortgage, a…

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Wise people do not forgive anyone, but demanding people do not forgive everyone at once

Forgiveness – the removal of claims and accusations, the cessation of resentment and anger towards the previously guilty. Forgiveness is the world. It is a world for yourself and a declaration of peace for the one you are angry with.
Note: your forgiveness is not omnipotent. If you haven’t forgiven, it’s not obvious that a person is worried because of this, and if you have forgiven, it’s not at all necessary that a person will feel better immediately afterward. People are still quite autonomous creatures, and their experiences depend not only on us, on our words and our attitude, but also on the inner position of the person himself. If the one who is guilty feels guilty before us, then forgiveness usually reduces his feelings. However, if the experiencing person is more versed in himself, then your forgiveness does not play a key role for him. Continue reading

What to learn from a European family
The rational and very useful achievement of the European family - the lack of division of responsibilities between women and men, may seem controversial for a Russian person, but it…

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What is love worth?
"I love you!" - what are these words? "I love you, dear, but today is football, and football is dearer to me than you!" "I love you, dear, but my…

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The Taming of the Shrew, or How to Put a Husband on a Distance
Putting your soulmate on the Distance is a thankful result, but not easy in itself. Especially if your other half is an adult and mature, with your own opinion, sometimes…

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How to become a good wife
Becoming a good wife is easy: you just need to learn this. Surely you already know almost everything. You learned that for a long time. Mom teaches her daughter to…

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