When a family is created through sex - there is nothing good about it
“Our women have three sexual disorders: pedophilia, bestiality, masochism.” Recently, marriage statistics look like a social catastrophe: the number of divorces is almost equal to the number of marriages. According…

Continue reading →

Fidelity and treason
With regard to family psychology, fidelity is the most important and not always achievable condition for maintaining the stability of a monogamous marriage. Treason in marriage, adultery - a violation…

Continue reading →

Family WE
The essence of the family is WE: caring for both of us, about ourselves and about you, about our couple. We were separate, and we became together, we became a…

Continue reading →

How to behave a girl to get married

The fact that getting married is not the most important thing in the girl’s life, the girls understand that they are already married and faced with the fact that it does not at all look like the life of a fairy-tale princess in a magic castle. In a good way, not all girls can be married: you don’t want to spoil the life of either them or young people; however, fighting that girls want to get married is pointless. Moreover, this goal is not bad: in moving towards this goal, girls can grow wiser and get acquainted with what self-control, discipline and control of their emotions are. It is possible to marry successfully and by accident, but by chance becoming a good wife will not work, you need to be able to take care of yourself and follow the rules. So, if in the desire to get married the girl will teach herself to follow the rules, will teach to subordinate her desires and impulses to what is “necessary”, she will learn one of the most important life lessons. And this is already excellent.
My daughters read the book Ellen Feyn and Sherry Schneider “Rules. How to Marry the Man of Your Dreams”, it seemed practical to me, but for me it was a good reason for me to write an article about this and even include an interesting curriculum at the University of Practical Psychology assignment related to this book. I used the materials of my daughters, supplementing my observations on how prudent girls act. I find much in such recommendations controversial, but I know that many girls have successfully used these tips. So, other girls have the right to know about this. And by the way, even men will be warned about this.

So, lovely girls and charming women, you have the rules!
In any case, there are rules, there are rules for building relationships with men, and they should be known so as not to make unnecessary mistakes. If you behave correctly, the man calls you and invites you. If a girl tells herself and others that he is “just afraid of obligations” or “not ready for a relationship,” there are two options: either the girl is completely unattractive, or, most likely, she behaves wrong with him. If you want to get married, how to behave correctly?

You are always inwardly calm and happy.
You are always inwardly calm and happy.
First, you are always happy. Once you can be nice to a young man, once cool, but that does not negate the main thing: your inner “Good”, inner well-being. You always have funny eyes and a sunny smile. You never complain, you are not upset (can you cope? Is this necessary), and you are not talking badly about anyone. Always behave politely, like an English queen surrounded by lovely subjects.
Second, you look after your appearance and look beautiful. It is clear that you do not have any bad habits (is that already so?), It is incompatible with your task. You eat right, you do sports and dances useful for you, you have an elegant figure, you are always dressed feminine, neat, bright and tasteful. You know the details of this science better than us. We are about relationships. So,

The third and main thing is that you treat men well, but you do not aspire to marry, you are not in love with anyone, and you are not very interested in relationships. Every detail is important here.
First, you treat men well. You have a positive outlook on life, you like living, you treat people and men in particular well. You do not like to complain, you are not offended by anyone, you do not plan to take revenge on anyone, men are not goats and scum, no one betrayed you – and so on, everything is fine with you. Have you agreed?

Learn this phrase – and forget forever!
Learn this phrase – and forget forever!
Second – you do not seek to get married. In no conversation with a man never say “I want to get married.” For men, this wording sounds completely different from the way it is heard by girls; it sounds to them the same way as for girls it would sound like “I want a woman” from a man. Men hear “I want to get married” as “I want to be on the man’s neck so that he would support me and take care of me.” Another thing is if you once say: “Of course, you always want to have a loved one close by who you can take care of, with whom you can build a happy relationship!” – The content is the same, but it sounds attractive.
The film “Girls”
Great click on the nose! Now he will look at her with interest and seriousness!
download video

Third and most important – you are not against relationships with men, but men need this more than you. A great strategy is “ice and fire”, when you easily move into a warm and close relationship, but you stop any claims of a man against you (such as “Now you are my property”). If you like a man, why not be warm and frank with him, why not take his palm in your palm or put your hands on his chest, convincing him of some little thing? This promises the man a future of warmth and joy, but if he didn’t come shaved today or has a bored look, swipe thoughtfully with the back of his fingers on his stubble and say seriously: “You are out of sorts today.

And what are we going to talk about today?
“My father always tried to choose an interesting or useful topic during lunch to develop the mind of his children. In this way, he turned our attention to good deeds…

...

How to stop being Mommy
Women do not know how to love. Twist as you like, but this is the real truth. Strongly said, yes? That's what I wanted to call this note, but I…

...

How to become a good wife
Becoming a good wife is easy: you just need to learn this. Surely you already know almost everything. You learned that for a long time. Mom teaches her daughter to…

...

Relationship crisis
A crisis in a relationship is a period when your previous relationship has ceased to suit you. When the couple no longer wants to live as before, and the relationship…

...