a lazy dog
Putting your soulmate on the Distance is a thankful result, but not easy in itself. Especially if your other half is an adult and mature, with your own opinion, sometimes stubborn and stubborn. He, in general, does not prevent you from doing “all sorts of cute stupid things,” such as psychology, and even really supports your new beginnings, but he doesn’t! “I have other interests!”, “Why do I need this?”, “It was you who entered there. And what have I got to do with it? ”- perhaps the most typical answers to the offer to go to the training, Sinton-cinema or to join the Distance.
What to do in this situation? After all, it turns out that you go forward, achieve something, rethink something, change old attitudes, overestimate values - in a word, you move! And at this time, another oar of your family boat, which worked in a habitually measured rhythm, continues to row along the beaten track of automatisms, creating turns, congestion and cycles. How not to slip into a situation where the husband is a “suitcase without handles,” which is hard to carry and it is a pity to leave? After all, he is his own, dear and beloved, and you, like, are still one, but already different. Continue reading
With regard to family psychology, fidelity is the most important and not always achievable condition for maintaining the stability of a monogamous marriage. Treason in marriage, adultery – a violation of a public or secret agreement on the exclusivity of intimate relationships.
In family history for at least several millennia, male fidelity, as a concept, was absent. Men, if life circumstances allowed them, allowed themselves to have several wives (there were certain obligations to them) and concubines without a number (there were no obligations to the concubines). In this case, female infidelity was considered simply as physical infidelity, namely a sexual relationship with another man. The fact of forcing a woman to have sex could be a circumstance mitigating her guilt, but it might not be. Continue reading