how do you respond
“Our women have three sexual disorders: pedophilia, bestiality, masochism.”
Recently, marriage statistics look like a social catastrophe: the number of divorces is almost equal to the number of marriages. According to psychologists, this happens mainly because many people get married for a variety of ridiculous reasons, except for one true one – to build a family.
The famous psychotherapist and author of numerous books, Mikhail Litvak, spoke about who succeeds in creating a happy family and who will have to fill up the statistics of divorces.
Information: Litvak Mikhail Efimovich (born in 1938 in Rostov-on-Don) is a psychologist and psychotherapist with 40 years of experience, a candidate of medical sciences, the author of books on practical and popular psychology. Continue reading
Culture is not peculiar to everyone, and from many people and more than once you will once hear both stupid and offensive remarks. If possible, it is better to skip such rubbish criticism without even discussing it. “The dogs are barking, the caravan is coming.” Do your job in the best way possible, and do not waste time bickering with those who criticize you out of business, not understanding, or just doing billing.
A much more complicated situation is when unfair and insulting criticism sounds to you from the boss or seniors. How to react to this? – In any case, start by doing what you are told, all the more likely that it is not criticism that is not fair, and you do not understand everything in what is happening. Chef or seniors often – know better. Another thing, the offensive form of comments to you – yes, this is not the case. If the relationship with them is good, after all, you can ask you to make comments in a more acceptable form for you. It is often very useful to formulate in plain text how you can be criticized so that you perceive it normally. And if your relationship is problematic, then instead of being offended by an unpleasant form of criticism towards you, think about the main thing: is it possible to change the relationship? Or – what else to do to change the situation as a whole? Continue reading