“Loves a woman, loves a child.” I very often hear this saying when it comes to talking about the children that a man receives with his beloved woman.
Does a man give love to a woman an automatic opportunity to become sympathetic to her child?
As I have to observe, it does not. Very many men do not at all have enthusiastic feelings for the children of their women from previous relationships.
And is it the only “fault” here of this particular man?
As life shows, men even love their own children not so much for the call of blood, but for specific personality traits. If for some reason the father does not like the personality of the child, then often the father also does not observe love and strong affection for the child. And if in a situation of biological paternity, the father can be asked – where is his own contribution to the personality of his child, so that it delights him? In the case of a foster child, such questions are no longer relevant. Continue reading